{"id":92,"date":"2014-06-09T18:55:00","date_gmt":"2014-06-09T18:55:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/behavior.web1313.kinghost.net\/blog\/nao-se-trata-de-vitimas-e-viloes\/"},"modified":"2015-03-24T23:42:29","modified_gmt":"2015-03-24T23:42:29","slug":"nao-se-trata-de-vitimas-e-viloes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.behavior.com.br\/blog\/en\/nao-se-trata-de-vitimas-e-viloes\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o se trata de v\u00edtimas e vil\u00f5es"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">Ontem buscando conte\u00fado para o <a href=\"http:\/\/behavior.web1313.kinghost.net\/blog\/o-bom-humor-sumiu-com-o-sol\/\" target=\"_blank\">nosso tema<\/a> me deparei com a seguinte pergunta:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<div><span><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><a href=\"http:\/\/behavior.web1313.kinghost.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/IMG_2914.jpg\" style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/behavior.web1313.kinghost.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/IMG_2914.jpg\" height=\"320\" width=\"218\" \/><\/a><span><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><b><i>\u201cqual das seguintes afirma\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e9 mais parecida com seus pensamentos: tem gente querendo me prejudicar ou est\u00e3o todos dispostos a ajudar\u201d<\/i><\/b>.&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">Fique surpresa ao responder t\u00e3o r\u00e1pido que a primeira afirma\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 mais pr\u00f3xima do que penso. \u00c9 surpreendente como agimos: racionalmente sabemos que as pessoas n\u00e3o querem nos fazer mal, pois salvo raras exce\u00e7\u00f5es, ningu\u00e9m veio ao mundo para prejudicar o outro.&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div>&nbsp;<span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; text-align: center;\">Mas numa avalia\u00e7\u00e3o r\u00e1pida vi como \u00e9 f\u00e1cil se perder desta verdade. Quantas vezes nos sentimos magoados com pessoas achando que elas n\u00e3o fizeram por n\u00f3s o que eu far\u00edamos por elas ou ainda, que quiseram puxar nosso tapete.&nbsp;<\/span><br \/><span><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><span><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">Eu vivo dizendo que tudo que acontece comigo \u00e9 unicamente responsabilidade minha e que o resto \u00e9 s\u00f3 teoria da conspira\u00e7\u00e3o, ou seja, uma grande bobagem. Mesmo assim, ao me deparar com essa pergunta, percebi como nossos pensamentos, palavras e a\u00e7\u00f5es, quando inconscientes, s\u00e3o fragmentos de nossas verdades.&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">Fiz ent\u00e3o o exerc\u00edcio contr\u00e1rio, quantas pessoas n\u00e3o devem estar ou estiveram chateadas comigo achando a mesma coisa e eu nem fa\u00e7o ideia. Conclu\u00ed ent\u00e3o que n\u00e3o tem outro jeito a n\u00e3o ser o di\u00e1logo. Ele, sempre ele! E a amorosidade. Claro que n\u00e3o vai dar para sair por a\u00ed perguntando para todo mundo se, alguma vez, a pessoa se sentiu prejudicada por algo que fiz (ou que n\u00e3o fiz). Mas sempre \u00e9 preciso fazer isso com as pessoas pr\u00f3ximas. N\u00e3o se trata de discutir a rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Trata-se de amor, de entendermos que todos n\u00f3s estamos fazendo o nosso melhor.&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\"><br \/><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span><span style=\"color: #444444; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;\">N\u00e3o h\u00e1 v\u00edtimas e vil\u00f5es e sim, seres humanos tentando acertar, evoluir e crescer. A beleza, insisto, est\u00e1 no amor, na generosidade, no respeito e no andar consciente. Pode parecer muita coisa, mas \u00e9 s\u00f3 uma quest\u00e3o de se manter no centro da sua vida e tudo isso fluir\u00e1 sem peso. \u00c9 nisso que acredito.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ontem buscando conte\u00fado para o nosso tema me deparei com a seguinte pergunta:&nbsp; \u201cqual das seguintes afirma\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e9 mais parecida com&#8230;<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":325,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-92","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sem-categoria"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.2 - 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